![]() |
Gima Okhiulu delivering her speech at the Half the Sky Speech Contest in Akure, Ondo State. |
We attended Half the Sky, a speech contest commemorating the International Day of the Girl Child in Akure, Ondo State, and it was at this event that we met GimaOkhiulu, a student from the Evangelical Church Winning All (ECWA) Group of Schools in the State. Gima was amazing with her storytelling, linking each of her points to the next in a way that just made you stay glued to what she was saying. And because of how well she delivered her speech, we gave her a cash price and promised her a spot on the blog for any article of her choice. Here is Gima’s piece on her struggles with low self-esteem.
Low self-esteem is like a silent destiny killer in the lives of growing kids, especially girls. A lot of unfulfilled destinies can be attributed to this ‘plague’.
With a low self-esteem, a person sees themselves as useless, unappreciated and if you may, ‘down the ladder’. It is a state of strongly believing that others are better than you. It is a false sense of believing that nothing good will come out of whatever you do… a Siamese twin to hopelessness.
I’ve had to deal with serious low self-esteem, varying from feeling unimportant and useless, to feeling like I was born stupid and back to feeling useless and hated. Although, this was hidden from my parents, it wasn’t from my older brother – Remen – who was the only person I occasionally opened to and God, whom I prayed to about it sometimes. And even though my parents didn’t know about my struggles, my dad and Remen were constantly trying to boost my self-esteem and my mum was my spiritual backup. And yes… God helped me too!
Since I’ve been dealing with this, I feel like it is my duty to encourage people in similar situations. Low self-esteem starts when you start comparing yourself to other people and viewing them as being better than you. Like Remen said, ‘Everyone has their own star and their different ways of shinning.’ If you compare yourself to other people, you will blind yourself to seeing how important you are and your mind will begin to focus on what it may have convinced you is your ‘uselessness’.
Like I said earlier, I had always thought I was born stupid, one reason being because my parents are really smart. Some things I found hard to do, my younger brother would just do like it was nothing. I would be like ‘Gima, you’re such a dumbass!‘ But lately, with the help of Remen, I recognized that I am actually sharp when it comes to making accurate calculations; sometimes looking like I prophesied it.
The reason most of us feel like we’re not smart enough is that we are not looking at the bright side; we are too focused on the negatives.
Also I felt unimportant because many times, I felt denied of what I wanted and it seemed like my sister always got what she wanted. Eventually, I discovered that there was always something I really liked that was kept for me. Thinking my sister got everything and I didn’t affected me because I was negative, which is why I now believe that another way to get over low self-esteem is to be positive.
The last and best option is to go to God in prayer. This was the most effective method that worked for me.
2 Comments
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Ero Pharm Fast: order ed pills – Ero Pharm Fast
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Medications online Australia: Online drugstore Australia – Discount pharmacy Australia
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Over the counter antibiotics pills best online doctor for antibiotics or buy antibiotics for uti
https://cse.google.com.ai/url?sa=i&url=https://biotpharm.com over the counter antibiotics
buy antibiotics over the counter buy antibiotics from canada and cheapest antibiotics get antibiotics without seeing a doctor
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
https://pharmau24.com/# Buy medicine online Australia
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
pharmacy online australia Pharm Au 24 or Pharm Au 24
https://images.google.mn/url?sa=t&url=https://pharmau24.shop Buy medicine online Australia
Online drugstore Australia Licensed online pharmacy AU and pharmacy online australia pharmacy online australia
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Pharm Au 24 PharmAu24 Online medication store Australia
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
antibiotic without presription: buy antibiotics online uk – Over the counter antibiotics pills
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Ero Pharm Fast: online ed treatments – Ero Pharm Fast
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
PharmAu24: Online medication store Australia – PharmAu24
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
buy antibiotics from india get antibiotics without seeing a doctor buy antibiotics
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
https://biotpharm.shop/# buy antibiotics from canada
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
get antibiotics without seeing a doctor: Biot Pharm – get antibiotics quickly
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
buy antibiotics online: get antibiotics without seeing a doctor – buy antibiotics online
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Over the counter antibiotics pills: Biot Pharm – buy antibiotics for uti
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
get antibiotics without seeing a doctor buy antibiotics online uk best online doctor for antibiotics
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Over the counter antibiotics pills: get antibiotics without seeing a doctor – buy antibiotics from canada
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
https://pharmau24.com/# PharmAu24
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
over the counter antibiotics: buy antibiotics online – buy antibiotics for uti
Your comment is awaiting moderation.
Customers appreciate the soccer goal’s mobility, finding it effortlessly portable, with one customer noting it’s light enough to move easily and another mentioning that transportation and storage are convenient. With just a few days to go until the conclusion of the 2018-19 season, Les Rouge et Noir can still finish in 7th place, as long as they do better than Nîmes and at least as well as Reims in the final game. While the J-Stake Soccer Goal Anchors are highly effective on hard ground, it’s essential to use caution in areas with underground sprinkler systems to avoid accidental damage. In career game No. 60, Draisaitl notched his 60th career playoff assist and career playoff point No. 100. Sixty apples in 60 post-season games is a feat accomplished by only three others: Wayne Gretzky (43 games), Connor McDavid (54) and Mario Lemieux (58).
https://wordpress.squeezetablet.com/aviatrix-casino-game-review-the-thrilling-sky-adventure-for-indian-players/
The artist behind Jeter’s custom cleats Trailing 3-2, the Carolina Hurricanes pulled goaltender Dustin Tokarski for an extra skater. McLeod, pursuing a loose puck in the attacking zone, had his stick snapped by a slash from Canes defenseman Brent Burns. If you don’t plan out your behaviors, then you rely on your willpower and motivation to inspire you to act. But if you do plan out when and where you are going to perform a new behavior, your goal has a time and a space to live in the real world. This shift in perspective allows your environment to act as a cue for your new behavior. Prior to the Defiance comeback, Whitecaps 2 had scored a pair of goal in the second half and seemed well on their way to victory. When a player has scored two goals in a game, which can be referred to as “a brace”, they will often be described as being “on a hat-trick”, because if they grab another goal they will have completed their hat-trick.
Wow!inspiring
Great piece on overcoming what demeans you.